Book Outline
Thomas Jefferson created a book called ‘The Life and Morals of Jesus of Nazareth,’ recording the morals and principles of the New Testaments’ Gospels and removing all miracles by Jesus, all details of the resurrection, and most passages that portray Jesus as divine. From 1904 until the 1950s, new members of Congress were given a copy of the Jefferson Bible provided by the Government Printing Office. Jefferson intended the book to be a moral standard without any religious nuances. The moral teachings of at least parts of the Holy Bible were considered valuable by United States Government and Presidents, so there is probably some value of other non-miracle and non-Jesus-divine teachings to society. The teachings of the Holy Bible have valuable information for anyone willing to learn how to have a better life.
Everyone marries with the hope of feeling wedding bliss “until death do us part.” At the time of writing this book, several sources reported that 60% to 85% of marriages are unhappy, and the Divorce Rate (in Canada) is around 38%; this means that 22% to 47% of married couples remain in unhappy marriages until death do they part.
Only 7% of conflicts are due to the words of the message, which means that 93% of conflicts are due to the delivery of the message (quality of voice and body language). I intend to help people comprehend and resolve conflicts due to a simple misunderstanding of different personality styles – before conflict escalation. With the right rules and the right tools, wedding bliss “until death do us part” is possible for every Marriage.
Volume 1 (STAR and RATS) explains the different Personality Styles: Positive (STAR) and Negative (RATS) and answers how and why the differences can cause unhappy relationships.
Volume 2 (Tools and Rules) explains how to establish and nourish Love, Joy, Peace, and Harmony in your relationships with different personality styles – of course, success depends on your commitment to the relationship.
“STAR Personality Styles” uses principles from the Holy Bible to explain: (1) the Negative, as well as the Positive, Personality Styles; (2) how to deal with people who have Negative Personality Styles; (3) how to overcome Negative Personality Styles within ourselves; (4) Safe, Effective, and Calm Conflict Resolution; (5) a comprehensive set of rules to promote the most satisfying relationship for all Interpersonal Relationships.
“STAR Personality Styles” is based on principles from the Holy Bible, but don’t let the source of the information turn you away. Almost everyone, with whom, I have shared the information directly (one-on-one, couples, or small groups), has reported back that they have benefited from the information contained in this book.